It is with deep sadness that we share the passing of Richard Opsteegh, the beloved owner of Rotterdam’s iconic gay and drag venue, Café Bonaparte. Richard passed away on Thursday evening, May 15, 2025, at the age of 40, following a series of strokes. His loss is profoundly felt within the LGBTQ+ community and beyond.

A Beacon of Inclusivity
Richard was more than a bar owner; he was a visionary who transformed Café Bonaparte into a sanctuary of love and acceptance. Located on the Nieuwe Binnenweg, Bonaparte became a haven for individuals of all backgrounds—gay, lesbian, straight, drag queens, and transgender people alike. Richard’s philosophy was simple yet powerful: everyone is equal, and everyone deserves a place to feel at home.
In his own words, “This pub is a reflection of me: I love love, I never argue, I don’t like fighting. I like everyone—whether you come in as a kind of gabber, a punk, or in a very neat suit. For me, everyone is just equal. With Bonaparte, I’ve created a small world as I think the whole world should be.”
Triumph Over Adversity
Richard’s journey was marked by resilience. In June 2023, a devastating fire ravaged both his home and Café Bonaparte. Despite the immense loss, Richard vowed to rebuild, driven by his commitment to the community that had come to rely on the safe space he had created. Through crowdfunding and the support of loyal patrons, Bonaparte rose from the ashes, reopening its doors in April 2024.
A Legacy of Love
Richard’s impact extended beyond the walls of Bonaparte. He was known for his unwavering optimism, his ability to see the good in people, and his dedication to fostering connections. His alter ego, Denise Bonaparte, brought joy and laughter to many, embodying the spirit of celebration and self-expression.
As we mourn his passing, we also celebrate the indelible mark he left on our hearts. Richard taught us the importance of kindness, inclusivity, and the power of community. His legacy will continue to inspire and guide us.
Rest in peace, dear Richard. Your light will forever shine in the hearts of those you touched.
Note: This tribute is based on the article “In memoriam: Richard Opsteegh van nachtcafé Bonaparte ging uit van het mooie in mensen” from De Havenloods.